Gossip is more than just an escape or a form of entertainment; it is a flaw that most of us, at some point, have been guilty of.
While some people do not add lies, such conversations often remain brief and casual.
This is not to justify even harmless gossip, but it is true that we have all found ourselves discussing a person, a situation, or an event in someone’s absence.
At times, this resembles a healthy discussion based on facts, concern, and an intention to understand or solve a problem.
However, gossip is different and is built on assumptions, biased opinions, half-truths, and mostly no truth but nasty lies.
True gossip stems from harmful intentions, jealousy, or resentment toward another person.
It thrives on mockery, rumors, and the subtle poisoning of other’s opinions, feelings, and behavior toward the individual being discussed.
Instead of seeking direct communication, gossip slowly shapes other people’s opinions and feelings against someone who is not present to speak for themselves.
Gossip harms not only the person being spoken about but also those who become puppets of the mastermind.
Some gossips are not random; they are pre-planned.
One sign is that such gossip does not end and leads to proper schemes against the target.
Before one realises it, there can be a whole group of people working against the target.
In such cases, gossip is not the reason behind the schemes; the schemes and agendas were the primary intention from the beginning.
Machiavellian females know in few meetings which women are to be attacked and have to be removed out of picture, they know which women they feel outshined by, whose personality is reminding them that being a woman is more than just looks, clothes, desiring finer things and outer beauty. So if you think suddenly why a female is going crazy and starting a hate campaign against another female , that’s because she was planning this for quite some time.
It all happens step by step – getting too close initially by mirroring who you are as a person but only in words not in her actions, she will say things like “Oh I’m also like this , I also like this, I also want to do this in private conversations, she will be earning your trust, learning your perspective, insights, passions, ambitions, hobbies, ideas, feelings and whatever makes you you ! Then she starts poking you ,using dog whistle tactics , will bait and bash you , will do things to hurt you , confuse you with hot and cold behaviour, inviting you then purposely ignoring and if you distance yourself respectfully she can’t let it be the end of fake friendship because it is happening respectfully, that isn’t her plan !
Even after all this She will return with more apologies and repeat her strategic tactics and then when you try to confront ( you confront because your naive innocent loving persona believes her again and again otherwise you would have learnt and started playing her game ), now she will unleash her fake anger ! As if confronting her was such a huge crime, she will start using abusive curse words and nasty language because she was harbouring jealousy, rivalry for quiet some time.
Gossip and drama is started using small arguments or respectful confrontations that are turned into forced fake fights.
Jealousy may make someone pick fights to end fake friendships and get rid of the target to replace them.
The person observes, watches, and copies the target’s personality, dreams, hobbies, and future plans.
Forced fake fights are then used as reasons to create hatred and gossip against the target.
At the same time, the person may fake being a true friend in private chats so the target does not doubt anything is wrong.
Praising the target and giving fake apologies privately while simultaneously turning people against them becomes part of the process.
The next step involves brainwashing some people and turning them into flying monkeys who help in bullying, harassing, and ostracising the target.
The mastermind acts nonchalant and does not directly tell others to join but fills lies in people’s minds, charms them into being puppets and if not get supported then may even resort to creating forged false evidences / stories under the target’s name/ identity in which she is the victim and the actual victim is the culprit but will also make sure nobody asks the target anything by convincing others that the target needs to be taught a lesson by taking revenge sneakingly, slyly ! ( such a criminal, vicious mind but predictable enough for me as I have seen who she is and how low she can stoop to steal and snatch whatever she sets her mind to)
Through careful wordplay, people are made to cut off communication with the target so the truth cannot come out.
Gossip sessions gradually lead toward serious planning and harmful intentions.
Gossiping leads to smear campaigns that damage someone’s reputation.
Smear campaigns result in isolation, ostracising, and the destruction of the target’s social standing.
Before becoming a part of someone’s dark ploy, pause and ask yourself — why are we gossiping about someone if they are such a bad person or a loser? Where is this gossiping leading? Why can the mastermind not think or do anything in their life on their own? Why always live and do things in comparisons and competitive spirit?
If she is truly a victim, why is she working in sneaky ways? Ask questions. Ask what the targeted person has actually done to you?
If the targeted person is such a bad person why do you apologise and connect with her over and over again ? While you turn a group against her, during the same days why were you praising her and telling lies about third person in texts ? That’s a clear divide and rule ! Why were you obsessed with someone else’s equation during your honeymoon phase ? Don’t you ever prioritise your own life and moments ? Your own life is a background thing ! Such dedication isn’t shown by you ever in your life, all the time you’re a needy, fragile , can’t do anything on own , damsel persona but in other people’s matters you yell, have jealousy fits , interfere, dominate, bully ,micromanage and control as if you’re the eldest and authoritative, responsible one! Everyone must listen only to your stories and lies, everyone must bow down to you and take decisions of their life based on your insecurities and issues ? Shall all women disappear from the planet to calm down your issues ! They must let you control their bonds , always third wheeling so that you can keep the mess going on because misery loves company plus third wheeling to get other’s energy, art, ideas , inheritance, identity, attention outsourced to you !
People must ask to bring the targeted person face to face, and let everyone speak and discuss things openly.
A real victim often goes into hermit mode, choosing to heal, to evolve as a person, and to become better in their art and skills. A culprit, however, tries to make the original one disappear — isolated and ostracised — because she cannot feel seen or heard in the presence of high-value women. She feels the need to be ruthless, to copy, plagiarise, steal, and lie, building a whole team against the original creator. And for this, she needs a strong story — a story powerful enough to make others believe that these harmful actions are right, even when they are not.
