Some women passed conventional beauty standard of this country and failed inner beauty standard of this country-

this motherland where warrior queens, revolutionaries, reformers, scholars, patriots existed and their spirits live on forever.

Then there are those women who couldn’t see beyond their skin colour and entitlement born of it.

Sometimes , no not sometimes ;

Mostly real insecurity isn’t in – not fitting conventional beauty standards but it’s in knowing that – this is all you have !

It’s in shocking realisation after a certain point in life that your outer beauty and superficial charm and low level tactics got you attention easily early in life but after a point people around outgrow being impressed by it.

Why is it that we always see whether in real world or in movies  that a mean bully girl is someone who fits the conventional beauty standard ! Watch any movie be it Hollywood or Bollywood – It is always a woman who fits conventional beauty standard yet she is someone  who is a mean bully or have a Machiavellian personality.

She has expensive clothes and all things materialistic, so called fair skin- her favourite alibi to hide her abusive, shallow dull personality! A mind that only knows evil tactics because some people are born with cruel nature, wicked mind and never ending desires for which they can stoop to any level !

Moreover others assume that she feels beautiful enough when in reality who knows if she loves her body shape or her facial features? Who knows she loves her natural hair texture and style or not ? Who knows how much money she has been spending on her looks to make herself feel better because she isn’t satisfied or doesn’t feel confident until and unless she fits in and follow the recent trend! There’s nothing wrong in that( not all women spending money on their looks have shallow personalities but shallow ones are always obsessed with their looks)

I am stating the fact that assuming a fair skinned woman in India can’t have shallow personalities and can’t feel jealous and intimidated in presence of other women is so absurd !

Do all white people have confidence, talent and beautiful personalities ??  She might envy some other women’s eyes, nose , smile or sense of style while growing up or later in life ! She could envy someone with a dusky skin tone but having something else which this fair skinned one covets.

Her tone and facial expressions while asking you that you know how to drive two and four wheeler! Envy all over the face and in her tone. Your ability to face your fears and learn skills trigger her.

Above all how someone compliments your actions and your personality makes her obsessed with you specially when she is hell bent on owning that person for her own twisted agendas!

These women in front of others,  compliment you behind your back at first and then plan and plot how to ruin everyone’s perception of you gradually. Their entire life is based on “sly strategic politics”. Apparently they are never wrong but yet everyone’s life is full of pain and chaos around them.

Throwing rocks and hiding hands is their mantra!

Grown ups know when someone speaks and behaves a certain way with us so no we aren’t overthinking. We know when someone is giving an actual compliment or backhanded one ! If someone is clapping and supporting like we do for them or just withdrawing and ghosting us to act as if they don’t see our artworks!

Just because someone has fair skin tone in india doesn’t mean that person fits the beauty standard and even if they fit the beauty standard doesn’t mean they were perfectly happy with their looks during adolescence or even till now !

Even if a minor inconvenience happens in life such women are unloading all that in other people’s lives and using them to get whatever they want ; there’s nothing wrong in being a “pack mentality” person but using that group to coerce control and create dirty politics, being clannish because too insecure of losing the spotlight for even one day and then acting like an alpha female  is phony and wannabe move.

Others have to deal with their own pain and issues and then hers too!

These tricks actually work for a long time in their life because most people, under the influence of conditioning, subconsciously assume that if a girl is fair skinned in India, then why would she feel jealousy or insecurity towards anyone!

Since a very young age, such women know how to use and abuse others and then they also want to act like they are strong independent, hardworking and having an ambitious persona !!
Truth is such women have always wanted infinite money and materialistic things, they are completely hedonistic but coming across divine feminine archetype and alpha females, their bubble of being the big fish in the small pond gets burst ! Their bubble and habit of manipulating people around them because they are so pretty gets burst !

They get a shocking realisation that there are women out there who have amazing personalities.

Their looks are not even and won’t even be the topic in their whole lives because people will love them for their personality, good deeds and heart. Their soul keeps evolving for real and they are not just pretending. The way they live their life while paving the way for many is a proof.

Some conventionally attractive people aren’t just insecure-

they’re also always hungry for attention and nothing satisfies them because they are shallow ; like a bottomless glass can leak an  entire river !!

They put different mask in front of different people and groups !

They are quietly threatened by those who bring more to the table than just appearance.

Because personality can’t be copied.

Talent can’t be copied .

And a good heart can’t be faked for long.

So no-society isn’t uncomfortable with beauty.

It’s just no longer willing to pretend that it’s enough.

Pretty gets attention.

Depth gets remembered.

Looks can turn heads.

Character imprints souls.

Confidence is not the same as competence. Fluency is not the same as intelligence and appearance is certainly not the same as personality.

If someone lacks depth, empathy, integrity and originality; their outer appearance also becomes ugly!

Those who have seen their true side can see their spirit.

Let’s understand this illusion through colonial rule-

The illusion of superiority built during colonial rule was powerful precisely because it targeted perception.

In the end, neither fair skin nor fluent

English defines greatness.

Character does. Capability does.

When the British (initially through the East India

Company) first came to India in the early 1600s, they weren’t arriving in a poor or backward land. In fact, they encountered a highly developed, wealthy, and culturally rich civilization.

Here are some of the key qualities and remarkable things they found:

1. Enormous Wealth and Prosperity

2. World-Class Textile Industry

3 Skilled Crafts and Artisans

4 Rich Knowledge System – India had deep traditions in mathematics, astronomy, medicine (like Ayurveda), and philosophy. Concepts like zero and advanced algebra had already originated here centuries earlier.

5 Agricultural Productivity

6 Magnificent Architecture

In simple terms:

The British came to India because it was already prosperous, skilled, and globally important-not to

“develop” it, but to trade and eventually control its wealth.

They used many tactics like

Creating a Sense of

Superiority

They projected themselves as:

•   More “civilized”
•   More educated
•   More advanced and they were nothing of these things – they were Just cruel cunning “Sophisticated thieves”

They played Divide and Rule (Psychological Level)

Beyond politics, they:

•   Highlighted differences (religion, caste, tribe)

They carefully crafted their image:

•   Disciplined armies
•   Formal dress, ceremonies, symbols
• This made them look powerful while being weak people who loot and destroy others.

Same way some women use various tactics to make their superficial charm affect others around them! They are takers and don’t just take away materialistic things but also try to take your peace, your energy, your personality, your originality, your relationships, your faith and basically your entire soul !

they use this as an alibi “ Oh I am so pretty and fair skinned why would I be jealous”.

An alibi to hide their Machiavellian personality

To hide their greedy and gold digger personality! The ones they harmed know what hypocrites they are! What liars they are ! How they bully women based on pronunciation when in reality many a times they themselves don’t know a couple of things which you know and since these things never impress you , you don’t flaunt it but the one who is obsessed with these things, the one whose identity is extremely enmeshed with “foreign language” to them it is a huge blow to their ego!  – their face turns red and for few minutes their behaviour changes towards you – like punishing you for knowing something they don’t !! The frowns, the eye roll when you speak something correctly and they don’t –  these red flags mustn’t be ignored.

The bubble of delusion bursts and then such women start feeling threatened because all their lives they hyped these things. To the world they show themselves as who you are – your behaviour and personality !  What they observe in you and what all compliments others had for you ( before they created chaos, lies and false allegations)

They steal all that and start saying all that about themselves !  Personality swapping !

Britishers too came with their fair skin and they created this illusion that they are so it !! They were conmen and thieves ; extremely brutal when it came to their selfish motives! There’s a saying “The sun never sets in British empire because even god doesn’t trust them in darkness”

They hid their lack of confidence and competence behind their false grandiosity.

Negativity is same whether it’s an empire or a single person.

If you will see in kaliyuga illusion plays a huge role !

Truth is being portrayed as a lie and lie is being portrayed as truth.

Aesthetics and plastics catch the eyes but destroys the soul.

  Waking up to this truth itself is a privilege;

If divine didn’t give up on you then why do you doubt yourself ?

Many people never get the chance to see beyond illusions, if you are waking up to this – it isn’t a punishment

It is a blessing.