Our grandparents didn’t take all the ancestral patterns forward, our parents didn’t take all as it is forward and we too shall break some patterns n then what’s left, our children will. It will go on until a bloodline reaches emancipation. This path is forward , it is not backwards and its definitely not supposed to be stagnant. The perfect, the enlightened, the wisest elder is a myth and is yet to be born in the bloodline because if she or he already existed then would have been like buddha ( would have broken all karmic shackles aka relations, desires etcetera). When one teaches two must learn, So learn from your kids as well.
Our parents surely thought they’ll do their best, we think we’ll do our best then what happens?? Soul contract, this is what happens, a soul has its own karmic path ,for example- sometimes you’ll see your parent(s) understanding and supporting someone genuinely but when the same thing is about you and you try to explain they don’t understand , they just can’t , suddenly something comes over them, you feel why you didn’t get that connection or support , it’s because you share a karmic relation with them also, you are destined to have the lack of that particular thing so you’ll have a lack of it. Some people get emotional support from their parents but not financial privileges , some get all the materialistic things from their parents but no emotional support , some get neither and some seldom get both because the issues you are meant to face ; you will face! Your past lives’ karma is connected to your present life. If the path is meant to be tougher for you ; then it will be. That’s why never have any resentment in your heart, do protect and heal your mental health but do not get bitter. Black sheep of the families, the cycle breakers , the kids who have old souls are meant to break toxic generational patterns of the bloodline and the only way to do that is realizing that you have to heal yourself and lead by example, family members who want to heal will follow in your footsteps and those who do not want to or do not wish to, they simply will remain the way they are and you have to accept that some people aren’t meant to heal in this lifetime if they won’t choose to. Yes, they have freewill to choose healing in this lifetime but if they don’t act upon their freewill then no matter how much you love them you can’t take that step for them! You have to love them from a distance; you can do all you want for them but always remember that these family/extended family members are unable to reciprocate because of their habits and patterns. Love yourself, Heal yourself and work hard with whatever you have, keep being a good person but with healthy boundaries.
